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You have to see blowjobs as a principal way for you to pleasure yourself, not just him. As I’ve said before, to truly give great head you have to see it as critical to your own sexual satisfaction.
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Once you understand why you like penis, it’s time to express that desire with your lips, tongue, throat, and hands. Its hard but silky sensation has a good “mouth feel” and having it there creates a tender after-it’s-done intimacy. And because his erection is a symbol of his attraction for you, it makes sense that you would want to pleasure it. It’s also about the pleasure you get from seeing him in so much ecstasy that it renders him incapable of thought. At this point, I kind of just love having a cock in my mouth, especially my SO’s who I adore and who is always really mind blown by it.”īut attraction to power dynamics aren’t the only reason to want his hardness in your mouth. I’ve definitely come before while sucking someone so it’s mostly a mental thing. “ I’m pretty submissive so the act of a blowjob ranges either from teasing him and watching him squirm to being dominated and deep throated. I love hearing him moan as I do what I do, hearing him say I’m amazing, pulling my hair etc.” I love the feeling of knowing that I’M in control, teasing him, knowing that it’s all me that’s making him curl his toes and go crazy from the teasing. For most guys, it’s a curious mix of feeling powerful and submissive as described here: Get in touch with why you like masculinity’s Main Representative and you will certainly start liking blowjobs. Have you ever seen a speaker tap a microphone that’s obviously working and ask, “Is this thing on?” You need to do the same thing to your partner’s dick-tap it and ask, “Am I turned on?” Because if you’re not, you’re never going to enjoy blowing him. It’s about finding the overlap between two parties, the sweet spot that allows the giver to get as much or more as the given. Selfish blowjobs are not about denying your partner pleasure but in prioritizing yours.
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For example, it might bring you great pleasure to bite his dick with your back molars, but that would inconsistent with the concept of mutual pleasuring. It doesn’t mean doing something your partner doesn’t like just because you do. Selfish blowjobs require the giver to think of himself first and your partner second while aiming for mutual pleasure. But in “selfish” blowjobs pleasure is distributed evenly and in many ways, tilted to your favor. It’s giving without getting and it will eventually end up making you feel used and sexually bored. The traditional way of giving head-what I call the “selfless blowjob”-is a no-strings-attached gift to the man. It’s like licking a popsicle made of steel but kept in a taut silk bag. I do enjoy the sensation of feeling it in my mouth when poked it’s hard and firm but the texture is silky smooth. 9 Must-Know Techniques For Giving Good Head